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When Facebook suggests a friend does it suggest you as a friend?

When Facebook suggests a friend does it suggest you as a friend?

Facebook’s friend suggestion algorithm is complex and considers many factors when recommending potential friends to users. The main goal of friend suggestions is to connect users with people they may know in real life but are not yet friends with on Facebook. Some key things to know about Facebook’s friend suggestions:

How Facebook’s Suggestions Work

Facebook does not simply suggest all users to each other reciprocally. In other words, if Facebook suggests User A send a friend request to User B, it does not necessarily also suggest that User B send a request to User A. This is because Facebook’s algorithm attempts to only recommend friends who you likely know in real life, but are not connected to on Facebook yet.

Some factors Facebook may consider when making suggestions:

– Number of mutual friends you share with the suggested user
– Whether you’ve met the suggested user in person before
– Groups and networks you are both a part of
– Educational or work backgrounds you have in common
– Location history and proximity
– Shared interests, likes, and social connections

So in summary, Facebook attempts to use available data signals to recommend friends relevant to you specifically – not reciprocally.

Types of Friend Suggestions

Facebook may suggest three main types of potential friends:

1. Friends of Friends: These are friends of your existing Facebook friends who you likely know in real life but are not connected to you directly yet. Having mutual friends is a strong signal that you may know each other.

2. People You May Know: These suggestions are based on various data signals like shared networks, workplaces, educational backgrounds, location history, shared interests, etc. These people are surfaced algorithmically to you but are not directly connected through mutual friends.

3. People You Recently Searched For: If you have recently searched for someone specifically on Facebook, they may be suggested to you as a friend for easy connecting. This makes the suggestion process more seamless.

Controlling Friend Suggestions

You do have some control over friend suggestions on Facebook:

– You can remove suggested friends from your list so they do not appear again.
– You can control whether your own profile appears in other users’ People You May Know suggestions in the audience selector settings.
– You can limit friend suggestions to “Friends of Friends” only in the audience selector settings.

So in summary, you have some control over friend suggestions, but Facebook’s algorithm ultimately decides which potential friends are most relevant to you at any time.

When are friend suggestions reciprocal?

As mentioned above, Facebook’s friend suggestion algorithm does not simply suggest connections reciprocally between all users. However, there are some cases where adding a friend can lead to reciprocal suggestions:

Mutual Friends

If User A and User B have several mutual friends, Facebook may independently suggest each user to the other since they likely know each other. So while not directly reciprocal, the high number of mutual connections increases the chances of reciprocal recommendations.

Recent Interactions

If User A recently searched for, viewed the profile of, or interacted with User B, Facebook may suggest User B as a friend to User A. User A’s interaction with User B also signals Facebook to suggest User A as a potential friend to User B.

Network Connections

If User A and User B are in the same workplace network, college network, city network etc. on Facebook, they may reciprocally suggest each other since they share a connection.

So in summary, while suggestions are not directly reciprocal, certain behaviors and connections make reciprocal recommendations more likely by signaling to Facebook that both users know each other.

Case Studies on Reciprocal Friend Suggestions

Here are some examples cases of when reciprocal friend suggestions may or may not occur on Facebook:

Case 1: High School Friends

James and Michael were good friends in high school 10 years ago but have not interacted since then. Neither is connected to each other on Facebook. In this case, Facebook likely would not suggest them as potential friends to each other. Even though they have history in real life, they do not have any recent connections or mutual friends on Facebook that would signal a recommendation.

Case 2: Coworkers

Emily and Anna work at the same company and know each other professionally. They are connected to their company’s Workplace network on Facebook, but are not directly connected as friends. In this case, Facebook likely would suggest both Emily and Anna as potential friends to each other. The workplace network connection is a strong signal.

Case 3: Strangers

John and Mike do not know each other in real life and have no connections in common. John recently searched for Mike’s public profile on Facebook. Facebook may suggest Mike as a potential friend to John based on his searching. However, Facebook is unlikely to also suggest John as a potential friend to Mike since there is no indication that Mike knows John.

Case 4: Newly Added Friends

Sarah and Jessica met recently through a mutual friend and hit it off. Sarah sends Jessica a friend request on Facebook which Jessica accepts. Facebook may now be more likely to suggest connections from Jessica’s friend list to Sarah and vice versa since they are now directly connected on Facebook. Their new mutual friendship strengthens possible reciprocal suggestions.

Other Factors That May Impact Reciprocity

Here are some other factors that may influence whether Facebook reciprocally suggests two users as potential friends:

– Number of existing mutual connections – more mutual friends makes reciprocal suggestions more likely.
– Whether either user has interacted with or viewed the other’s profile recently – this signals Facebook to connect them.
– Common groups and networks – being in the same networks indicates a stronger connection.
– Physical location history – if two users seem to live in the same area or visit the same places, Facebook may suggest them.
– Shared interests and social connections – an indicator of potential compatibility as friends.
– Age and gender – Facebook may take demographics into account to improve relevance.
– Enabled visibility settings – users can opt out of appearing in certain People You May Know suggestions.

So in summary, reciprocal friend suggestions depend on the strength of real world connections between users that Facebook’s algorithm can detect. More and stronger signals of compatibility make reciprocity more likely.

Conclusion

While Facebook’s friend suggestions are not directly reciprocal between all users, in some cases adding a friend can lead to a reciprocal recommendation. The strongest factors that can lead to this are having mutual friends, shared networks and interactions, and similar demographics or interests. However, two strangers with no connection signals likely won’t get reciprocal suggestions. Facebook’s sophisticated algorithm aims to only recommend potential friends who it believes you may actually know in real life, even if you are not yet connected on Facebook. This leads to friend suggestions being more one-sided rather than reciprocally suggested between all users. The accuracy of connections you may have with suggested friends is prioritized over reciprocity.